Are you really in control of your kids character and determined destiny anymore or have you turned that over to society?
Here is a report about a kid not being able to take his chosen pack back to school.
They say it is encouraging others to bully him.
What they are really teaching him is that he has to conform to others and can’t be himself.
Why not teach the freakin bullies making fun of him that they need to get a life and enjoy the difference in people.
And yet here is another one of a Colorado girl being booted out of school for supporting a friend with cancer.
She shaved her head so her friend wouldn’t feel as bad about not having her hair, because of her cancer treatment.
Here is another one from Florida. 11 year old girl sent home with a Fat Letter. Give me a freakin break, does this 6th grader really look over weight?
What hell is going on?
Society is telling parents….
- What your kids can eat
- What your kids can say
- What your kids have to wear.
- How you have to discipline them.
What they are really telling you is that the minute your new baby is born he or she could be ABNORMAL when it comes to there standards.
(I have never seen 2 babies come out the same unless they are identical twins.)
You take your baby in for their monthly and yearly checkups…
The good old doc is telling you that your baby is to short, to tall, to fat or too thin or if you are lucky ‘your baby is JUST RIGHT’.
Sounds like they are blacklisting your baby like you would a dry Turkey on Thanksgiving.
Maybe they are slow in walking, talking or even crawling.
You better get them in therapy ASAP or they are going to be behind there peers.
If I was a parent of today’s younger generation I would tell them were they could put their opinions, unless I seen a real problem.
What happened to the days where you raise your kid without everyone else’s opinion?
You took them to the doctor for their checkup. They were weighed, measured, the doc feels around here and there moving their arms and legs.
Looks in the eyes, ears and throat and tells you…
‘Looks like they are doing great.”
See you in another year. (Yes, they did get there vaccinations) We wouldn’t even thought of opt-out on vaccinations back then.
- Are we as a society giving away our parenting rights?
- Are we listening to others too much?
Isn’t this putting a label on a kid?
And think about the poor kid that is a day dreamer like Walt Disney. He or She is labeled as a loser right away.
All people are different and that means all children are different, wouldn’t you say?
They all have…
- Their own personalities
- Their own looks
- Their own talents
Can you imagine a world where children walk around looking and acting all the same?
Is it time to hit the delete button…
And let kids be kids and stop putting so much stress on them about who they are supposed to be and what they are supposed to be?
Maybe there is advantages to being a single mom, you don’t have time to worry about what everyone thinks or says, you have your own worries to keep you busy.
(This isn’t saying that 2 parent households always have more time on their hands, they just have more help in getting things done and kids taken care of)
There is no time to read all the books on parenting. Worry about being a good or bad parent…
Read Facebook and see all the mothers showing off there perfect little families.
You have things to do and places to go and no help in site. Maybe you are the lucky ones after all!
You know that there is no way your kid’s going to be a robot, because it doesn’t matter what they say you are supposed to feed your kids…
They eat what you have.
They wear what clothes you do have for them.
They are happy being with mom when they can be.
With that said…
Do you go along with modern day parenting and all the gobbledygook or are you brave enough to suck it up and dare to be different in raising your kids?
Be a hero and share your spectacular opinion in the space below.