Sex is something that we ladies don’t turn on and off like a light switch. We want to make love because we feel loved. It is not JUST a release for us.
Let me share 12 reasons WHY I am not in the mood to share my booty with you even though it would be nice.
- I am not your servant: What I do for you are acts of kindness and love. Try following my lead and do them for me, like helping with the kids or picking up around the house.
- Don’t ever tell me to calm down: I have a problem and I am letting off steam. All you need to do is listen; and not try to fix things for me.
- Don’t tell me I am wrong: I may be wrong, but I don’t need to be told like I am just a dumb blonde.
- Treat me as good as you treat your friends and co-workers: If you wouldn’t talk to them like that never talk to me like that.
- I am not your enemy: Treat me as your lover and friend or I could become your worst nightmare.
- Put the toilet seat down: Yes, I know how to do this, but by you doing it shows an act of kindness. This can go a long way when it comes to sharing my booty with you.
- I like to go shopping: I respect your hard work, but sometimes I just want to see what is in the store. This doesn’t mean I need to buy something all the time.
- I do know how to ask for what I want: Maybe you aren’t listening to what I am saying.
- Don’t tell me I can’t make a decision: I decide every day what we are going eat, decide what I need to do with the house and decide what to wear every morning so I will look good for you and I make decision when it comes to our kids.
- I do get headaches: Maybe it is because the way you treat me gives me a headache.
- Help with the kids when you are around: Kids can wear a person out and they are not just my kids. It took both of us to make them.
- Don’t ever tell me to shut up. This is not a battle you really want to pick. You could spend the rest of your life talking to yourself or camping out on the sofa.
I don’t want to leave you standing there not knowing how to fix this problem, because I am such a loving, kind person here are the 12 things that will get you my booty anytime your little heart is in need of play time. (Anyway most of the time)
- Notice that I am not sloppy: I am dressed nice, have my make-up on and my hair looks good. I do this to please you, not just because it is fun.
- Take me out and act like we are dating. I do like a little romance sometimes. Let me know that you are proud to show me off to the world.
- Pick up after yourself: Picking up your dirt socks is not fun for me. We do own a clothes hamper.
- Help me cook and clean the kitchen: It is fun to have a little wine and cook with your best friend. Little music and dancing in the kitchen can be fun.
- You may not be the only one that has had a hard day. It isn’t easy working in or out of the home day after day and still be on call 24/7. I need to know you care about my day as I care about how your day went. And help after you get home with the kids would be wonderful.
- Notice when I change my hair style. When you look at me, see me; don’t look through or past me. We love when we are complimented, then we know you see us.
- Remember what color of eyes I have: If someone ask you what color of eyes your partner has, be able to tell them. Love is seen in the eyes, how do I know you really love me if you don’t even know the color of my eyes.
- Hold my hand when we are walking together: It makes me feel safe and loved. Or put your arm around me, so people know that I am special to you. Opening doors for me works too.
- Surprise me at least once a week: It can be flowers from the supermarket, chocolates or a call asking if you need to stop and pick something up at the store. You can even text me, that way I do know you are thinking of me.
- Go pick up the pizza: If I am not cooking, don’t make it my job to always go pick up the food. Or decide what kind of food we are going to be eating.
- Laugh with me: We love to laugh and play and have fun with our lover, so don’t tickle me, but a pillow fight would be fun.
- The foreplay starts right away in the morning: Treat me special when you are with me during the day, don’t wait until the last minute you want to make love and then act like you love me.
Did I leave anything out ladies? Now is the time to let it out and let him know how you want and need to be treated and loved. Go for it; drop it in the comment box below.