12 Reasons Why I Am Not Sharing My Booty With You Tonight

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Sex is something that we ladies don’t turn on and off like a light switch.  We want to make love because we feel loved.  It is not JUST a release for us.

Let me share 12 reasons WHY I am not in the mood to share my booty with you even though it would be nice.

  1. I am not your servant:  What I do for you are acts of kindness and love.  Try following my lead and do them for me, like helping with the kids or picking up around the house.
  2. Don’t ever tell me to calm down:  I have a problem and I am letting off steam.  All you need to do is listen; and not try to fix things for me.
  3. Don’t tell me I am wrong:  I may be wrong, but  I don’t need to be told like I am just a dumb blonde.
  4. Treat me as good as you treat your friends and co-workers:  If you wouldn’t talk to them like that never talk to me like that.
  5. I am not your enemy:  Treat me as your lover and friend or I could become your worst nightmare.
  6. Put the toilet seat down:  Yes, I know how to do this, but by you doing it shows an act of kindness.  This can go a long way when it comes to sharing my booty with you.
  7. I like to go shopping:  I respect your hard work, but sometimes I just want to see what is in the store.  This doesn’t mean I need to buy something all the time.
  8. I do know how to ask for what I want:  Maybe you aren’t listening to what I am saying.
  9. Don’t tell me I can’t make a decision: I decide every day what we are going eat, decide what I need to do with the house and decide what to wear every morning so I will look good for you and I make decision when it comes to our kids.
  10. I do get headaches:  Maybe it is because the way you treat me gives me a headache.
  11. Help with the kids when you are around:  Kids can wear a person out and they are not just my kids.  It took both of us to make them.   
  12. Don’t ever tell me to shut up.  This is not a battle you really want to pick.  You could spend the rest of your life talking to yourself or camping out on the sofa.

I don’t want to leave you standing there not knowing how to fix this problem,  because I am such a loving, kind person here are the 12 things that will get you my booty anytime your little heart is in need of play time.  (Anyway most of the time)

  1. Notice that I am not sloppy:  I am dressed nice, have my make-up on and my hair looks good.  I do this to please you, not just because it is fun.
  2. Take me out and act like we are dating.  I do like a little romance sometimes.   Let me know that you are proud to show me off to the world.
  3. Pick up after yourself:  Picking up your dirt socks is not fun for me.  We do own a clothes hamper.
  4. Help me cook and clean the kitchen:  It is fun to have a little wine and cook with your best friend.  Little music and dancing in the kitchen can be fun.
  5. You may not be the only one that has had a hard day.  It isn’t easy working in or out of the home day after day and still be on call 24/7.  I need to know you care about my day as I care about how your day went.  And help after you get home with the kids would be wonderful.
  6. Notice when I change my hair style.  When you look at me, see me; don’t look through or past me.  We love when we are complimented, then we know you see us.
  7. Remember what color of eyes I have:  If someone ask you what color of eyes your partner has, be able to tell them.  Love is seen in the eyes, how do I know you really love me if you don’t even know the color of my eyes.
  8. Hold my hand when we are walking together:  It makes me feel safe and loved.  Or put your arm around me, so people know that I am special to you.  Opening doors for me works too.
  9. Surprise me at least once a week:  It can be flowers from the supermarket, chocolates or a call asking if you need to stop and pick something up at the store.  You can even text me, that way I do know you are thinking of me.
  10. Go pick up the pizza:  If I am not cooking, don’t make it my job to always go pick up the food. Or decide what kind of food we are going to be eating.
  11. Laugh with me:  We love to laugh and play and have fun with our lover, so don’t tickle me, but a pillow fight would be fun.
  12. The foreplay starts right away in the morning:  Treat me special when you are with me during the day, don’t wait until the last minute you want to make love and then act like you love me.


Did I leave anything out ladies?  Now is the time to let it out and let him know how you want and need to be treated and loved.  Go for it; drop it in the comment box below.

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  1. I truly love this post. If more men would read this, then I think we would all be better off.

    • Debbie Bills

      Thanks Misty. Woman really are easy to get to know if they would just stop it so trying so hard. Have a great day.

    • best celebrity booty says:

      Ok well, this is a man reading this article. and i must admit that maybe we do need try a few tips from what i just read. But too much shopping is ridiculous! All you do is waste money and clutter the house! And instead of saying ‘shut up’ how about ‘be quiet’ lol?

  2. Hi Debbie,

    Couldn’t agree with all that you mentioned 🙂

    It takes so little for men to understand women…but only if they would! Small things matter a great deal to us, whether they are helping us with our never ending chores, or with the kids, laundry, cooking etc – anything to lighten our loads a little.

    I wonder why most men think that they are the only ones slogging. What about women, who I think work all the time – they never have a break even on weekend as they have to clean and cook, unlike working men who can take a day off.

    I liked your points about men not noticing our clothes, eyes, hair etc – these again don’t matter to most men, but they do matter a great deal to us, and the least they can do is make our day by complimenting us off and on. Taking us out shopping or having a romantic dinner out, or just sitting by the riverside or pool and talking – simple things that matter to us, wish would matter to them too.

    All women want is to be loved and understood, and if men can do that- they can get down to make her do anything in return, and I don’t think this is asking for too much.

    I guess it all comes down to bringing in the romance and love back into your married life and not just taking each other for granted. This is a major factor that helps marriages remain alive, and spouses tend to lead happy lives when they know they are cared for and loved.

    Thanks for sharing this with us. Have a nice weekend 🙂
    Harleena Singh recently posted…5 Ways of Helping Children Cope With Change In LifeMy Profile

    • Debbie Bills

      Yes, Harleena it does come down to bring or keeping the romamce in the marriage. When we start taking each other for grant and don’t try anymore things can get off track pretty fast. When it comes to me and hubby we always do these things every day, “I Love You”. We always hug each other every day. Take time out to talk for at least 30 minutes a day. it is those little things that really add up for us ladies and to make a happy marriage.

      Thank you for adding your wisdom to my words. You always add to the post.

  3. Great suggestions, here Debbie. To make relationships work, we do need to think about the other person and be considerate and respectful. With both men and women working this days, it is essential that both parties pitch and do their part. You lay it so clearly. SHould be premarital reading. Take care.
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    • Debbie Bills

      Thank you Cathy for the kind words. Relationships can be great when we take the time to learn and water the garden. The love just blossoms. Thinking of the other person and being respectful is a must.
      Thanks again Cathy.

  4. Well, this is a brve post indeed and so valuable. I think every man in the world should read it.

    You left one important thing out.


    Clean and having a smooth face is important. Not only for the obvious things but some of us are fair skinned and there is notihing good about face burn. (Or anywhere else)

    Good for you, Debbie.

    Would love to know what your husband said about this post. C’mon. Tell us
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    • Debbie Bills

      Always love hearing from you Corinne and I like that ‘Showering and Shaving on the Weekend.’ I really had to laugh Saturday, because my hubby didn’t shave, even though he does have a beard, but still has to shave some. Anyway after getting ready he did ask me, ‘Hope you don’t mind that I didn’t shave.’ No i didn’t mind, but it was sure good to have him ask me whether it was ok.

      Actual he does most of the things on my list. He even wipes down the sink in the bathroom after using it, if he is the last one out of bed he makes the bed and if he is the last one to shower (which is usually on the weekends) he wipes down the shower. Trust me I know how lucky I am. He even puts a new roll of toliet paper up if he uses the last of the roll. That one he always reminds me that he does.

      He isn’t perfect though, he can have a little selective hearing at times. 🙂

  5. Debbie

    Am I the first man to read this! Certainly the first to comment!

    Joy and I often dance in the kitchen…then we argue when I tread on her feet (only kidding – she normally treads on mine!).

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    • Debbie Bills

      I love that dancing in the kitchen. As for treading on the feet, you might try keeping your shoes on. The impact won’t hurt as much when it happens.

      Seriously Andrew, this is an action that women do love. It is one of those little things that makes a BIG difference. As a woman we can feel the Love.
      Thanks for sharing

  6. Your post had me nodding in agreement from the start Debbie. It’s all about not being taken for granted and instead being appreciated! One comment that did jump out at me was about the pizza. I do all the cooking in our household (which is okay) but when we do agree to have a takeaway it would be wonderful not to have to go get it! 🙂
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    • Debbie Bills

      I agree with you completely Carolyn on the pizza. We always get pizza from the take and bake and it is great when he goes and gets it(which is not very often). It is all about not taking each other for grant. We can sometimes fall into that habit and then things can go down the drain like a garden that isn’t being watered for feed.

      Thanks for sharingf your imput.

  7. This is cheeky, yet true. Many men don’t take the time off to learn about their women and about what they like/want.
    As you said, foreplay begins in the morning for women. Even though men can turn on their desires in a second, we’re not like that at all. Our minds have to be in the right place and what better way to do that, than to do the things you mentioned above.

    Great post.
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  8. Sliding Gates says:

    Nice one as usual I like it.

  9. Duane Underwood says:

    Thanks a lot for your post. I now know all the possible reasons there are to know for my wife not giving me any on certain nights 🙂 I guess it is really important to try and understand the issue rather than dismiss the whole thing the next time a woman says she isn’t in the mood.

  10. being a little bit more reserved with your body is always a great decision

  11. love this list. I rewrote in personal words i.e. I exercise every day and I feel confident, Exercise gives me energy, etc. I shared it on my social media sites.
    Then I added: I make the right choice when I exercise and the more I choose right the more right choices I will make in every aspect of my life. –

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